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Over 20 years' worth of observations, recommendations, and considerations on life, family, and the military lie within these narratives. Cheers!

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Managing Promotion Expectations opportunity self awareness

In the early stages of a military career, promotions tend to feel straightforward. Whether enlisted or officer, the first few advancements often follow a fairly predictable path. As long as a service member stays out of serious trouble—avoiding the obvious career killers like lying, cheating, or ste...

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The Curse of Competence opportunity self awareness

I was recently asked to take on yet another project. As I mentally reviewed the growing list of additional duties, taskers, meetings, and “quick favors” already filling my calendar, I kept my inner monologue to myself. Surely there were others with more capacity—fewer collateral duties, lighter work...

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Are Best Practices Sustainable? leadership opportunity

Just because something has been a certain way for some time doesn’t make it the best way. At every turn, the environment, political scene, or latest innovation impacts the variables surrounding the relativity of “best.” This conundrum doubles down when personalities, budgets, and adversarial changes...

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DoW Recommendation to Real Readiness Improvement money opportunity

“Readiness” is a buzzword heard across every branch of the U.S. military. As the nation’s ultimate line of defense, service members are expected to be fit, trained, and ready to serve at the will of the President—or, for the National Guard, their governor. In practice, readiness is measured through ...

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Give COAs, Not Ultimatums leadership opportunity

No one likes to be threatened—physically, emotionally, or professionally. It’s bad leadership and bad business. Ultimatums are often disguised as choices, but in reality they present a single outcome at the expense of something significant. Do this or else.

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Postpartum Experiences resiliency self awareness

The military is full of change. Rarely are two days ever the same. There are three states in which the military often finds itself: gearing up for major change, recovering from a major change, or managing the current state of ongoing thrash. There are high-highs and low-lows. And although military s...

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Take the Leap opportunity self awareness

I regularly sit down with service members from every status and background, and I often find myself giving voice to the words they’ve been quietly avoiding: “Take the leap. Go for it.” But before I send anyone charging toward a new path, I hit pause—and start asking the uncomfortable questions that ...

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Safety Dance: Transparency vs Safeguard leadership self awareness

People want to know what’s going on. Unfortunately, in the military, knowing the “why” is not always possible. Whether due to urgency, national security, or lack of perspective, military members at varying levels will not know everything. A young private probably won’t know why they need to conduct ...

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